Red Lips.

 "Red Lips", Should red lips be kissed or no? ;). I think YEAH DEFINITELY!

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My 27th Birthday

Can't believe it that I have finished 27!!! so fast :D...I still think like I am 18! It is a shame! ;)

Well, anyway I had a very niceeeeeeeee bday beside my family.That was amazing to be home again for my bday after two years of being abroad for studying. Loved it.

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Style Me Pretty

                                                                                  

Lauren Conrad

Lauren Conrad

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Audrina Patridge

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Mirror

How do you see yourself?

Are you a kitty who sees herself as a lion, or are you a lion who sees himself as a kitty?

I guess, sometimes how we see ourselves depends on the mirrors that we are looking into. Do you remember those mirrors in fun houses that make some distorted reflections? Those that make us look tall and skinny like a string or fat and short like a ball! It all depended on the mirror that you’re looked into.

I was reading an interesting article, which was about psycological issues, when suddenly I got paralyzed by reading this sentence that:

”Some of the most important mirrors in our lives aren't mirrors at all. They are other people”.

It got me in deep thinking. That is so truely correct, others could give us a glimpse of ourselves. One of this mirroring that happened to me a lot is through the things people tell me like: ”I like your hair today”, ”Oh... you are wearing...that?” .or imagine yourself presenting something in front of a group of people, some people are sleeping, some are nodding and make eye contacts, some are taking notes and so on... That is interesting, the same as fun mirrors that give us distorted reflections so can other people.

When I thought more and more I realized that we have ”person mirrors” everwhere in our lives and that would be necessary to examine them carefully in order to make the life more ground and smooth for ourselves maybe. When we are at work for example, I guess organizations mirror people with compensation, recognition, performance reviews and these kinds of things. And it is important that your boss mirror you accurately, this is important to know because we tend to hold the boss's opinion in pretty high regard because of the organizational authority that she or he holds over us. or among our family members and friends, I do not think that our partner, kids, or parents seeing all sides of us.They just mirror back to us the parts that they know. It is really great to have friends to reflect to us accurately for better or for worse, but ACCURATELY! It is so good to get mirrors by friends and family and get the ”hard truth”.

Do your friends tell you "the hard truths"? If not I think it is better to find someone who mirrors them for you. Conversely, we don't need friends who are just beating us up and taking from us all the time. If this is the kind of mirroring you get from friends, it's time for firm boundaries. We all need mirrors in our lives. Just make sure that they are showing you the real you.

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Bittersweet Symphony

     Bittersweet Symphony
  (Live At Live8 / Coldplay feat. Richard Ashcroft)

'Cause it's a bittersweet symphony, this life

Tryin' to make ends meet

You're a slave to money then you die

I'll take you down the only road I've ever been down

You know the one that takes you to the places

where all the veins meet, yeah

You know i can't change, I can change

I can change, I can change

But I'm here in my mold

I am here in my mold

But I'm a million different people

from one day to the next

I can't change my mold

No, no, no, no, no

Have you ever been down?, have you ever been down?

Well I never pray

       But tonight I'm on my knees, yeah

          I need to hear some sounds

      that recognize the pain in me, now

            I let the melody shine,

   let it cleanse my mind, I feel free now

But the airways are clean and there's nobody singing to me now

 I'll take you down the only road I've ever been down

 I'll take you down the only road I've ever been down

        Ever been down

        Have you ever been down?, Ooh

       'Cause it's a bittersweet symphony, yeah

       'Cause it's a bittersweet symphony, yeah

     My life

     Your life

      Their lifes

  Come take it down the only road I've ever been down

       'Cause it's a bittersweet symphony, yeah

             This life, this life, this life...

        

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Confession of a lost soul

No, please do not hurry in judging that this post gonna be about some scary lost spirits or ghosts. Well, to be honest I would like to share a confession here.

…” I get so blind when I am angry and I do response so insanely”…

For any reason when I get angry and feel disappointed, I lose my temper easily and would start attacking my love ones, no matter who they are and how old they are. I am acting rather rashly in response to someone else's hasty maneuvers. A conversation as follow is always going on in my mind, which is between “Me” and my “Imaginary Peace Angel”.

Me: Oh no, how he/she has dared to say such a thing to me, huh? How?

IPA: Calm down Mahsa, he/she didn’t say such a bad thing. Yeah it was not nice, but you can get over it.

Me: No, why should I get over it? I will show him/her who am I!

IPA: Hey Mahsa please think before you make any sudden moves. Do you remember what happened the other time that you opened your mouth and said such things that a second after you regret it. Do you remember?

Me: Well, yeah, I do remember it. But this time is different. He/she should respect me. I am not a stupid girl.

IPA: But you are good friends. Remember the nice moments that you have shared, do not break everything, think more on it and discuss it later when your anger is gone.

Me: Um, Why should I always forgive people? Why should I always take the blame on me? Why should I always be nice while others are not so to me? I am sure that both of us are making mistakes.

IPA: I didn’t say forgive anything or sacrifice yourself! I am just saying think before say a word. You know it better than me that your heart and brain are saying something opposite to your mouth. You always say something rashly and then regret it. Better not say it or be that strong to be proud of what you have said and do not regret it. But I know, you have a kind heart.

Me: Well, you are right. But just let me tell him/her that lablala….

IPA: See, what did you do?! Now you made a simple disagreement to a bloody fight!

Me: :(( Yeah so badly true, I am shaking and have started to cry a bit. What should I do now? Why did I say that? I love him/her. I just wanted …. :(.

IPA: Ok, Before it is going worse, say something like, that you didn’t mean it that way, say sorry and something like that and try to heal it.

Me: Yeah, Ok, But….

IPA: Stop that “BUT, BUT, BUT…”. I told you, think before say something.

Me: It worked, I made it better. I am really shaking. Thanks dear. But couldn’t you help me a bit earlier when I was about start getting mad?

IPA: Mahsa you would be amazed at what incredible things can develop if you simply use your head first. You never can change people, just accept them the way they are and do not hurt your love ones when you do not really mean it. You are an emotional girl. I know you, you can not sleep at night when you feel you have bothered someone unintentionally. Just control your rashly responses when you get angry for any reason and everything ganna be fine.


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When you are down

    Photo credit:fuckyeahfashionn

I kind of think this pic contains most of the things that would make me flatter :D. Just need to add some  more stuff like; a cup of coffee, a piece of chocolate, some DVDs and of course my mom and my boyfriend.

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"The Orange Girl"

Recently I have been reading a book from the Norwegian author, Jostein Gaarder. The book is called: “The Orange Girl”.

“The Orange Girl” is a modern story with a philosophical theme. It is the story of the eleven year old boy, Georg, who has lost his father at the age of four. While he barely remembers his father, suddenly his grandmather found some papers from his dead father, a letter which is written to him. A letter from a dead father. The papers contain a mestrious story of Georg’s father unconventional love with an elusive young “orange girl”, while on the other side representing profound questions regarding the meaning of life, love and universe.

The story is easy to follow and sweet, it leaps back and forth between the father’s letter to the future, the Georg’s thoughts and the events of the father’s life and finally it leaves George with some deep questions about life and the existence philosophy to solve.

One of the most amazing characteristic of the book that I am impressed with is the creativity of the author in showing us how the human being imaginations can easily fly beyond the limited ordinary lines of life. For those who like philosophy, life mystery and a passionate love this book is a MUST READ.

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20 facts about me

1. I am a natural dark-brown hair.
2. I prefer dogs to cats. Cats are too spoiled and not loyal enough.
3. I have no tattoos and only one piercing on my ears.
4. I used to be poked fun by everyone on my BIG eyes.
5. I always like to have an aquarium full of fishes at home, but I never had it since now.
6. I hate fake smiling. I hate it when people are way too friendly with a big fake smile plastered on their face.
7. I did played violin seriously for four years from the age 10 to 14 or something like that and suddenly stopped it.
8. I am interested in so many subjects and that makes me appear fickle and flighty.
9. I like to read philosophical books and watch philosophical movies, it is fun when I watch a movie like that and understand nothing, but still love it.
10. People who keep telling repeated stories several times can drive me crazy.
11. I can NOT walk out of the house without foundation on my face.
12. I do like cooking and my favourite food is steak with mushroom sauce and vegetables.
13. I have a very keen sense of smell and I do hate the smell of fish and egg.
14. I am not good on long-term planning, terribly short-sighted.
15. I hate mama’s boys.
16. I can easily cry at movies, funerals, farewells and any other tragic moment.
17. My father passed away by heart attack when I was 18, the saddest thing ever.
18. I love people who are positive and relaxed (my boyfriend). I am just the opposite, always stressed.
19. I can not stand too self-confident people.
20. I barely can sit down and talk on the phone at the same time, I must be moving in some way, I know it sounds weird!

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Self-analyzing!

Due to talking with myself, yeah you read right, talking to me myself, if there is really someone there to hear, I was trying to block my negative thoughts and while getting a deep breath and relaxing, trying to understand what the hell is going on…

I was instantly telling myself not to lose my mind. Well, while I was busy reviewing all my actions in my head, felt kind of burning in my pride… reminding that I always do a thing and then I regret why I have done it?! Remembering all the mistakes I have made, which I wish to kick the sad shadows of every mistake I have made out on the street…I hate it, hate it, hate it….I wish I could have drive so far away that these things would never cross my mind, I wish I was able to do whatever it takes in people’s hearts to leave me behind, I wish I was able to make my brain stop thinking and reminding and ….

So many wishes I have ;)

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Cute link!

 I Had a long surprising day, studied a bit, did my yoga exercises and finally met some of old friends of my mom who used to be her roommates at university. that was fun!! beleive me, not boring at all!!
we sat on a nice balconi and ate dinner. It was so much fun to see them talking about their old past memories and all the up and downs and sweet and souer times they have shared together...I enjoyed it.
I bought a new leopard scarf for myself today, which you can see it on the photo. I kind of like leopard printed stuff. also there is a gray leopard printed short in my dream ;). hahaha...

        I have it :D                                 I like to have it someday ;)

Now I was searching for some pictures and I suddenly got delighted finding the following website. Guys this is sooooo cool, really liked the stuff on this site, take a look : http://www.zazzle.com/funny+gifts
Tomorrow I would attend my best girl friend Master thesis presentation, I am so excited, I guess even more than her, hope everything goes fine...


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Why do we break up with a partner?

For me personally, having a romantic relationship is a meaningful element in life and I think an effortless relationship dose not exists .I do know that everyone likes to think that his/her relationship is strong enough to withstand whatever may come. However, at some point in our lives most of us need to face the fact that relationships require effort to keep them strong and positive.

Recently I was talking with some friends who has broken up or are about to do it, I decided to write down the reasons that I think would lead us to break up with our partners who used to be our love ones one day…
I just excluded the tooooo obvious reasons like cheating, abusing, psycho problems and so on…so these are my top five reasons:

- He/she changed; not interested in my life or views anymore: why do we sometimes got bored from each other suddenly? I think it is our curious nature that would fade up gradually and would lead us to the notion that our lover is something repetitive that is always there and there is nothing new and interesting about her/him to more explore on, so we automatically lost our focus and attention to our lover and would go for other things.  ??!!

- Insecurity; If a boy/girl is so paranoid about his woman/man running off with someone and doesn't have anything--like a history or whatever--to back it up, then there's something seriously wrong. If it is going to happen again and again it would lead to dissatisfaction and separation at the end.  ??!!'


-Consider relationship as a business trade; some of us may think that we should gain something out of our relationship, no any sacrifices we are willing to make, not any feel of sympathy , not any feel of responsibility, just got more selfish and selfish and selfish…. then why not go and marry yourself ;).  ??!!

- Dislike each other's close friends or family; I am sensitive to what my close friends and also my dear lovely mum think about my partner. And I am more sensitive how my partner is behaving with them. So, I always have it in mind that he may also expect me to like and respect his friends and family. mutual respect is a necessity to create a long lasting relationship I guess.

- Relationship lacks romantic gestures, not affectionate or emotionally communicative (cold); almost everyone is so passinate at the begining of the relationship, to run the relationship hottly we need to improve it everyday.

well well, to end up, just take a look at the following statistics which is on 10 worst and best lovers all around the world ;)))))))))))).
World's Worst Lovers:             World's Best Lovers:

1. Germany (too smelly)             1. Spain
2. England (too lazy)                 2. Brazil
3. Sweden (too quick)               3. Italy
4. Holland (too dominating)         4. France
5. America (too rough)              5. Ireland
6. Greece (too lovey-dovey)      6. South Africa
7. Wales (too selfish)                7. Australia
8. Scotland (too loud)               8. New Zealand
9. Turkey (too sweaty)             9. Denmark
10. Russia (too hairy)               10. Canada

P.S I didnt make up this statistic by myself, it came from a study research. so please dont kill me ;)

M.M

Manifestation

  Law of Attraction?

  Soul Manifestation?
  The Secret?
  The Moses code?

The above topics are very familiar for the followers of spiritual issues. I wonder why I just can not be the fan of them so much. Having read the Secret, my personal interpretation after finishing the book is that the book lacks to consider the role of fate and also lead the readers to sort of confusion. How can the authors of these books be so sure that they have provided us with a ” special key” that would work for every human being with every kind of beliefs and philosophies?

Is the world really based on the laws of compassion and peace?! Then how can people who suffers uncured diseases like MS and HIV be convinced that just by sitting around and sending positive energy a miracle would be created and they can suddenly get cured?!!

These are only my personal views, would love to hear from you followers.


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