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I was a bit down in these past two days. I noticed that one of my dreams is going to be faded away again. The dream to move in with my boyfriend since 20 Feb. The story is like this: after almost 3 months of looking for jobs and making applications and interviews, finally my boyfriend has found a perfect job in a consulting company and that means that he would be away from Monday until Thursday evening every week!!:(((((. Really really away, in another country!! But I didn’t disagree, because I think that would be a good chance for him to get new experiences, although I would be alone again. So I really do not understand why the life is treating us like this sometimes. It is almost a year that I am having a distance relationship with my bf, because of studying purposes and when we were about to plan to move in together, this happened. Well, at least I can be happy that I would have him for some nights and that is not a distance relationship anymore, because we would settle our place in Vienna city together and then he would be there for me from Thursday eve until Monday morning, hopefully!!!
That was interesting that when I was checking one of my favorite websites right now, I came across a sweet love story, which is a real story. Emily and Stefan met in Ohio while Stefan was an MBA exchange student at Emily’s university. After graduation, Stefan had to return to Germany. Boo! So they did the Trans-Atlantic long distance thing for 2 whole years. Very impressive!!! After they finished their studies, they got married and have literally been traveling on and off ever since (from their home base in Munich).
Well well, very sweet impressing story, dont you agree? I wonder if Mahsa (me) and Stephan can be another Emily and Stefan?
Here comes a pic of Emily and Stepan which I found on http://100layercake.com/blog/:
Wish you dear Emily and Stefan and all you guys a very happy lovely life ! cheers!
M.M
For me personally, having a romantic relationship is a meaningful element in life and I think an effortless relationship dose not exists .I do know that everyone likes to think that his/her relationship is strong enough to withstand whatever may come. However, at some point in our lives most of us need to face the fact that relationships require effort to keep them strong and positive.
Recently I was talking with some friends who has broken up or are about to do it, I decided to write down the reasons that I think would lead us to break up with our partners who used to be our love ones one day…
I just excluded the tooooo obvious reasons like cheating, abusing, psycho problems and so on…so these are my top five reasons:
- He/she changed; not interested in my life or views anymore: why do we sometimes got bored from each other suddenly? I think it is our curious nature that would fade up gradually and would lead us to the notion that our lover is something repetitive that is always there and there is nothing new and interesting about her/him to more explore on, so we automatically lost our focus and attention to our lover and would go for other things. ??!!
- Insecurity; If a boy/girl is so paranoid about his woman/man running off with someone and doesn't have anything--like a history or whatever--to back it up, then there's something seriously wrong. If it is going to happen again and again it would lead to dissatisfaction and separation at the end. ??!!'
-Consider relationship as a business trade; some of us may think that we should gain something out of our relationship, no any sacrifices we are willing to make, not any feel of sympathy , not any feel of responsibility, just got more selfish and selfish and selfish…. then why not go and marry yourself ;). ??!!
- Dislike each other's close friends or family; I am sensitive to what my close friends and also my dear lovely mum think about my partner. And I am more sensitive how my partner is behaving with them. So, I always have it in mind that he may also expect me to like and respect his friends and family. mutual respect is a necessity to create a long lasting relationship I guess.
- Relationship lacks romantic gestures, not affectionate or emotionally communicative (cold); almost everyone is so passinate at the begining of the relationship, to run the relationship hottly we need to improve it everyday.
well well, to end up, just take a look at the following statistics which is on 10 worst and best lovers all around the world ;)))))))))))).
World's Worst Lovers: World's Best Lovers:
1. Germany (too smelly) 1. Spain
2. England (too lazy) 2. Brazil
3. Sweden (too quick) 3. Italy
4. Holland (too dominating) 4. France
5. America (too rough) 5. Ireland
6. Greece (too lovey-dovey) 6. South Africa
7. Wales (too selfish) 7. Australia
8. Scotland (too loud) 8. New Zealand
9. Turkey (too sweaty) 9. Denmark
10. Russia (too hairy) 10. Canada
P.S I didnt make up this statistic by myself, it came from a study research. so please dont kill me ;)
M.M
