For me personally, having a romantic relationship is a meaningful element in life and I think an effortless relationship dose not exists .I do know that everyone likes to think that his/her relationship is strong enough to withstand whatever may come. However, at some point in our lives most of us need to face the fact that relationships require effort to keep them strong and positive.
Recently I was talking with some friends who has broken up or are about to do it, I decided to write down the reasons that I think would lead us to break up with our partners who used to be our love ones one day…
I just excluded the tooooo obvious reasons like cheating, abusing, psycho problems and so on…so these are my top five reasons:
- He/she changed; not interested in my life or views anymore: why do we sometimes got bored from each other suddenly? I think it is our curious nature that would fade up gradually and would lead us to the notion that our lover is something repetitive that is always there and there is nothing new and interesting about her/him to more explore on, so we automatically lost our focus and attention to our lover and would go for other things. ??!!
- Insecurity; If a boy/girl is so paranoid about his woman/man running off with someone and doesn't have anything--like a history or whatever--to back it up, then there's something seriously wrong. If it is going to happen again and again it would lead to dissatisfaction and separation at the end. ??!!'
-Consider relationship as a business trade; some of us may think that we should gain something out of our relationship, no any sacrifices we are willing to make, not any feel of sympathy , not any feel of responsibility, just got more selfish and selfish and selfish…. then why not go and marry yourself ;). ??!!
- Dislike each other's close friends or family; I am sensitive to what my close friends and also my dear lovely mum think about my partner. And I am more sensitive how my partner is behaving with them. So, I always have it in mind that he may also expect me to like and respect his friends and family. mutual respect is a necessity to create a long lasting relationship I guess.
- Relationship lacks romantic gestures, not affectionate or emotionally communicative (cold); almost everyone is so passinate at the begining of the relationship, to run the relationship hottly we need to improve it everyday.
well well, to end up, just take a look at the following statistics which is on 10 worst and best lovers all around the world ;)))))))))))).
World's Worst Lovers: World's Best Lovers:
1. Germany (too smelly) 1. Spain
2. England (too lazy) 2. Brazil
3. Sweden (too quick) 3. Italy
4. Holland (too dominating) 4. France
5. America (too rough) 5. Ireland
6. Greece (too lovey-dovey) 6. South Africa
7. Wales (too selfish) 7. Australia
8. Scotland (too loud) 8. New Zealand
9. Turkey (too sweaty) 9. Denmark
10. Russia (too hairy) 10. Canada
P.S I didnt make up this statistic by myself, it came from a study research. so please dont kill me ;)
M.M
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